“Everything you do is a signature of yourself so sign it with style”
Every time you sign on a sheet of paper you tell the entire world about yourself. Your signature reveals a lot about yourself in your personality because it is a reflection of how an individual behaves and tackles it in public. Basically, it is an indicator of how big you project yourself in public. Taking an example of a man who masks and hides all his sorrows keeping a fake smile on his face. He fakes his emotions just to show how strong he is to his outer world but let me tell you all as a graphologist I can easily deduce and can observe the person’s real psychological condition and emotional turbulence he is going through and travel answers he is going through. So today I am going to share with you all some of the mistakes you must avoid in your signature.
- A signature done with really high pressure and on the contrary where the handwriting of a person is found to be in light pressure clearly means that the person has an outer aggressive personality and a very calm and sensitive person from inside.
- When the signature has an inclination towards the right side( right slant) and on contrary, his handwriting is found to be slanted towards the left direction it implies that the writer has a different personality and he usually masks up his real self and projects a different picture to the outer world.
This is the reason whenever a client of mine asks me to analyze his signature sample I never take his/her signature in isolation, in fact, I always prefer taking a handwriting sample along with the signature sample to understand the real inner and outer personality gap.
Signature Mistakes You All Must Avoid
- Never conceal signature, as camouflage signatures creates an overprotective attitude and the writer often gets defensive in public. These people in long run develop insecurity and always have a fear of emotional pain.
- Writers who sign in very small handwriting get hopeless in long run and do not have hope for appreciation and lose the desire to be applauded, eventually, they don’t realize that they lose their confidence and for the world, they seem to be timid .
- You must always avoid striking through your signature as it means that the writer lacks self-love and always blame themselves for every wrong in their life. This is an early alarm that must not be ignored by others as it is an early indication of depression and also means that the person may have developed a suicidal tendency.
- When the writer signs and underlines it is normally not a big deal but when their underline fails to return to the originating point and ends on the left-hand side the signature is termed as traced back and must be avoided as such writer fails to connect to the present and future and is always haunted by their past.
- Avoid scribbling in your signature you must have seen doctors scribble their writing but that is a different scenario they have reason to do so the reason being their mind is working faster than their hands as repeatedly they have gone through the same context but normally people who scribble other than exception mentioned above these writers are always in hurry and make mistakes. They do not take responsibility for their mistake and always blame others.
- Avoid making extra strokes in your letters while making signatures as it will develop an attitude where you will be busy with unimportant and unnecessary things and activities resulting in your energy loss.
- If in your signature there is a sudden drop in your last letter get alert as it is a sign of some serious emotional conflict and also means that the writer has surrendered because he does not want to fight back anymore.
- Avoid cutting lower zone letters while doing signatures as a develop strong tendency to blame oneself for everything wrong in their life. The self-blaming attitude makes the writer really hard on himself or herself.
- Avoid making extra strokes or scribbling at the end letter of your signature as it means that the writer had a great zeal to start their project but ended without finishing. Moreover this complacent and slowing down affects the success rate of the writer.
- You must take care that there is no bloated lower zone letter in your signature mainly in letters ‘g’ and ‘y’ as these bloating of alphabets denotes your materialistic nature and to the extent that your desire for money and pleasure never gets fulfilled and nothing seems enough to you.
- Do not sign in all upper case letters as it develops an inferiority complex in oneself.
- Never make your first letter of signature exceptionally high as compared to another alphabet as it signifies you exaggerate things and have a natural and unnecessary boastful attitude. These writers end up annoying people around them with their absurd and gasconade nature.
- Always make sure to dot your ‘I’ as its absentia makes you careless and you start being careless and lack precision in your work.
- If you want that your first impression last forever and there is always a positive impression in your introductory meetings you must avoid putting an extra-long strong just before you start your signature.
With all my experience I can conclude that the personality traits carried forward from childhood may not stand you in good stead later in life. We all must leave behind that sense of entitlement we used to have in as teenager. Our handwriting is our reflection and mirror image of a personality. If you want desired changes you must change the way you write and sign this will eventually make you a better person in terms of confidence and other attributes. This new version will improve your personal as well as professional growth and eventually your quality of life will also be improved.
VIJAYA TIWARI
GRAPHOLOGIST AND FORENSIC EXPERT
